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KIDS FALLING THRU THE CRACKS: THE FOSTER CARE NIGHTMARE

There are more than half a million children and youth in the U.S. foster care system today. Studies reveal that children are 11 times more likely to be abused in state care than they are in their own homes, and 7 times more likely to die as a result of abuse in the foster care system. Ciara Jobes is one of those cases. Last year, she was found dead in the home of her foster mother; she was emaciated and had been badly beaten. This child — and many more — have fallen through the cracks, and cases like this seem to be popping up on a daily basis. Today, we discuss Shared Family Care, a new program that puts a different spin on foster care. Shared Family Care offers an alternative to traditional foster care and gives troubled parents a second chance: foster care for them and their children. Shared Family Care puts them in the home of a “mentor” family, who teach the basics of parenting, meal planning, budgeting, and finding work. First, we meet Gwen and Delaina; Delaina lives in Gwen’s home as a part of the Shared Family Care program, and Gwen is her mentor. Delaina is a mother of 8, and when her last child was born high on drugs and the state took her daughter away, Delaina knew she needed to change her life. She knew she couldn’t do it alone, so while in drug treatment she learned about Shared Family Care, and she shares her story of triumph in the studio. Then, Anna says she is proof that Shared Family Care can work. Anna is now a graduate of the program, and says it is responsible for turning her life around. Next we meet Iva and Daniel, family members of Ciara Jobes. Iva and Daniel say they are angry; with themselves, with the foster mother, social services, and Ciara’s school, and they talk about the young girl in the studio. Then, Tashima Dukes’ story begins at the age of 9, when she was taken from her mother and placed into the foster care system. By the time she was 18 years old, she had been in 13 foster homes. Now 24, Tashima, author of Truth Be Told…A Foster Child’s Recollection, was able to overcome her tragic upbringing, but says that if a program like Shared Family Care existed when her mom needed it most, she may not have been shuttled through 13 different foster homes. Finally, we meet John Reid, the Chief Operating Officer of Families First, Inc., which operates the Shared Family Care program in California. Sadly, this program only exists in three states, and is the first to go when budget cuts are made. John shares more about the program and reveals how people can get involved and push for Shared Family Care in their area.


Gwen
Gwen is a mentor through the Shared Family Care program. She has opened her home to mothers who need life skills training, and she teaches mothers how to become better parents while they live with her. Our guest, Delaina, lives with Gwen in her home as part of the Shared Family Care program. Gwen says she has taught Delaina everything from childcare, budgeting, cooking/cleaning, and basic parenting. We see video of a typical day in Gwen’s home.

Delaina
Delaina is former foster child who has 8 children. When her last child was born high on drugs and the state took her daughter away, Delaina knew she needed to change her life. She is currently participating in the Shared Family Care program and lives with her mentor, Gwen. Delaina has lived with Gwen for 8 months, and is close to “graduating.” She discusses how the program has changed her life.

Anna
Anna’s story of drugs, homelessness, and losing her children is unbelievable. However, thanks to her involvement with Shared Family Care, she is a graduate of the program and is now living on her own with one of her sons. Anna says living with her mentor saved her life and says she is living proof that keeping families together is important. She says her story is evidence that the Shared Family Plan could be a solution to the troubled foster care system.

Iva
Iva is the grandmother of Ciara Jobes, who was found dead in the home of her foster parent just this past year. Ciara had been severely beaten and weighed just 73 pounds at the age of 15. Ciara’s life is a tragic story of a young girl who fell through the cracks of the foster care system, living in a home where she was being abused and neglected with nobody to hear her cries for help. Iva says she is devastated over the loss of her granddaughter and she reveals more details about the story in the studio.

Daniel
Daniel is Ciara’s half-brother; they shared a father. Daniel says he is angry about Ciara’s death, and says he feels somewhat responsible; he says if he had stayed in closer touch with Ciara over the years, he would have known what was going on inside the home in which she was living. Daniel also says he blames failure within the foster care system for his sister’s death.

Tashima Dukes
Tashima says she is proof that the foster care system is flawed. By the age of 18, she had been in 13 different foster homes. Her mother was addicted to drugs and eventually abandoned her, leaving her to fend for herself. Now 24, Tashima was able to overcome her tragic upbringing; she graduated from college and became a social worker. She is also the President/CEO of Foster Children In Focus, Inc., an organization she founded to empower foster children, and Tashima has written a book about her life called Truth Be Told…A Foster Child’s Recollection. Tashima says that if a program like Shared Family Care existed when her mom needed it most, she may not have been shuttled through 13 foster homes.

John Reid
John is the Chief Operating Officer of Families First, Inc., which operates the Shared Family Care program. He discusses more details about the program in the studio.


FEATURED BOOKS

TODAY'S TIPS


http://www.familiesfirstinc.org/Programs/index.htm
Families First – Community Based Services: Shared Family Care Program – John Reid, Chief Operating Officer

http://ist-socrates.berkeley.edu/~aiarc/projects/sfc.htm
Shared Family Care Program Information

http://ehsd.org/child/child019.html
Contra Costa County Employment and Human Services: Shared Family Care

  • For more information on Tashima Dukes’ organization, Foster Children in Focus, Inc., or her self-published book, Truth Be Told…A Foster Child’s Recollection, you can contact her at: Foster Children in Focus, Inc., P.O. Box 30171, Elkins Park, PA, 19027, or you can send an e-mail to the following address: dtruthbtold@hotmail.com.

    http://www.philly.com/mld/philly/living/columnists/michael_vitez/5490185.htm
    Philadelphia Inquirer: “Childhood of abuse led her to life of caring”

    http://www.congress.org/
    Congress.org – Write your elected officials
    *Contact your elected officials and tell them you want the Shared Family Care program to be made available in your state.

    www.house.gov/writerep
    Write Your Representative - Contact your Congressperson in the U.S. House of Representatives
    *Contact your elected officials and tell them you want the Shared Family Care program to be made available in your state.

    www.senate.gov/senators/senator_by_state.cfm
    U.S. Senate: Senators by State
    *Contact your elected officials and tell them you want the Shared Family Care program to be made available in your state.

    http://www.acf.dhhs.gov/programs/cb/publications/fostersp.htm
    U.S. Department of Health & Human Services: Administration for Children & Families – State Foster Care Specialists
    *Agencies by State

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